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Categories: CHILDREN, RELATIONSHIPSShould you co-sign for your adult children to purchase a car? Or illegally rent a car in your name for them to drive?Signed,
Loan Agent
Dear Loan Agent,
You should never co-sign for anybody, and you should never do anything illegal. God tells us to obey the laws of the land (Rom 13:1-4). If you commit fraud in renting a car for your child, you are sinning.
Co-signing is similarly wrong. Co-signing is the act of agreeing to take responsibility for paying the debts of someone else. In essence, the bank has said that your child is too high of a risk to loan money to. When you co-sign for them, you are saying that you are taking the risk that the bank is unwilling to. God says that this is a very bad idea (Pr 17:18). He also promises that you will suffer for it (Pr 11:15). If you have co-signed for something, God tells you to do whatever it takes to get out of that situation (Pr 6:1-5). Eventually, your children will be able to purchase that vehicle on their own. It is a good thing for them to bear the burden of working for things on their own (Lam 3:27). As it’s been said, “It builds character.” Of course, you also always have the option of simply giving them the money if you feel they need it so badly.