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Categories: GRAB BAGHello. Well my question is: do dreams have to do anything with spiritualism? I’m asking this because lately I have been having really strange and creepy dreams. My husband doesn't believe in God at all and neither does my family (parents and brothers either), and it is really hard for me to seek the Lord because it’s hard to believe; I want to believe with all my heart because I already accepted Jesus, and I used to be so into God. But now, I don’t know what happened; there’s doubt in my heart. Two days ago, I dreamed that a snake was in my living room, and my husband and my baby were lying on the floor, and the snake was around my husband's head, and then that snake bit my baby, and I stabbed her because she was in so much pain. And then last night, I dreamed that I was into witchcraft, and I would see when satanic people would kill people. It was really graphic. Can this mean something? My husband doesn't believe in God, and he always curses God and is challenging God. I don’t know what to do.Sincerely,
Tossing And Turning
Dear Tossing And Turning,
The days of dreams and visions have passed. In the past, God spoke to various people through dreams, visions, and prophecy, but today He speaks to us through His Son, Jesus Christ (Heb 1:1-2). Now that we have the complete and perfect Bible – there is no need for God to give people individual dreams or visions (1 Cor 13:9-10). It is through the Word of God that we learn how to live faithfully (Rom 10:17).
We are sure that your dreams mean something, but they don't mean anything supernatural or prophetic. Dreams are part of our mind trying to make sense out of our day-to-day life. As you mentioned, you have a great deal of internal struggle within your family, and that is affecting your sleep patterns. The fact that you are writing into this site tells us that you are trying to put the pieces together and get help. One of the things that we do here at AskYourPreacher is try to connect people with a desire for answers (such as yourself) with congregations near them that can help them find long-term relief. If you would like us to do that, just e-mail us back at askyourpreacher@mvchurchofchrist.org, and we will happily help in whatever way we can.