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“I'm Not The Same Person!”
Categories: GOD, RELATIONSHIPS, SALVATION, SELF, WITH MANKINDI've had trouble in my past with the law. I'm sorry for what I did and have changed. Why do I still have to deal with all this? Is there something obvious I can do or something to show people that I'm not the same? I've tried wearing long sleeves to cover up my tattoos and wearing a cross, and all that didn't work. Is there, like, a saying or something that I can say? Or something else I can wear?
Sincerely,
Reformed Citizen
Dear Reformed Citizen,
There are two areas of our life that our sins effect – the spiritual part of our life and the physical part of our life. When you are baptized, the spiritual consequences for your sins are removed. Our sins bring spiritual death (Rom 6:23), and baptism brings a new life in Christ (Rom 6:3-4). The spiritual consequences for our sins are the most important because they are eternal consequences. Even if all of mankind hates us, if God loves us, we are safe (Matt 10:28). Forgiveness of your sins does not remove the physical consequences though – just the spiritual ones.
God tells us that we “reap what we sow” (Gal 6:7). The physical consequences of our sins will be with us our entire life. If we lose our temper and strike someone, then we must deal with the effects of that choice… even if God forgives us. If I am an unfaithful steward and spend all the money God gives me on worthless things, God’s forgiveness will not miraculously remove my poverty. God wants us to learn the lessons from our sins, and He disciplines us when we are disobedient (Heb 12:9-10). There is no magic pill, incantation, or jewelry that will remove the consequences of your choices in this life. All you can do is begin to humbly serve God (Mic 6:8). As you make better choices – over time – you will find that people begin to treat you differently. Let your humble, repentant, and gentle spirit shine through. You know that you are a different person; in time everyone else will, too.