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“When Two Oxen Fall In Love”
Categories: MARRIAGE, RELATIONSHIPSWhat does it mean when you are asked, "Is the yoke uneven?"Sincerely,
Huh?
Dear Huh,
The verse being referred to is 2 Cor 6:14. A ‘yoke’ is a ‘harness used to tie oxen together, so that they can pull a plow or cart’. When God tells us not to be “unequally yoked” to an unbeliever, He is warning us not to put ourselves in a position where we are committed and tied to someone who doesn’t share our values. The most poignant example of this is marriage.
If you are a Christian and you are married to someone who is not a Christian… you are going to have MAJOR problems. Your life is going one way, and their’s is going another. It is hard to pull a plow if the oxen don’t both go the same direction! This is why God tells Christians to only marry other Christians (1 Cor 7:39). So when someone asks you, “Is the yoke uneven?”, they are probably asking whether you are married to a Christian.