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Categories: CHILDREN, FAMILY, MARRIAGE, RELATIONSHIPSHow does adultery affect a family?Sincerely,
Damage Control
Dear Damage Control,
Adultery is devastating to a family. Adultery breaks the vows of marriage and destroys the trust that God intended for marriage (1 Cor 6:16). It is debilitating to the emotional well-being of the spouse that has been cheated on. God said that marriage is meant to be built upon love and respect (Eph 5:33) – adultery decimates both of those.
Children grow up too fast in a home broken by adultery. Children are products of the environment their parents create for them (Eph 6:1-4). If a marriage is hurting, so are the children that are supposed to be protected by that marriage. A family can survive after adultery, but the damage is deep, and the healing takes time.