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“Escaping Temptation”
Categories: DOCTRINE, FRIENDS, MARRIAGE, MEN & WOMEN, RELATIONSHIPSOne of my friends just left her husband for another man. It has become a big problem between us. She said that their "attraction was too great to deny." She has always been somewhat of a flirt. She says that it's just her nature. I don't understand! Would God make someone to be a natural cheat? If so, do I have a "nature" that would make me do something wrong?
Sincerely, Instinctively Angry
Dear Instinctively Angry,
Your friend is using an age-old excuse for sin. There is no such thing as an “attraction too great to deny”… just people who wish to follow their lusts instead of their morals. God specifically states that He doesn’t allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able to bear, and that there is ALWAYS a way of escape from sin (1 Cor 10:13).
We all have predispositions toward certain behaviors. Flirtatiousness, temper problems, laziness, depression, cowardliness, alcoholism, etc. are all temptations that pull stronger on some people than on others. You may never struggle with depression, but your temper may always be an issue for you. This is not an excuse for bad behavior, but simply a reality of life. Even as far back as Adam and Eve, God has not accepted excuses for sin (Gen 3:11-13). Your friend has chosen her own lusts over serving God. Instead of fighting against a predisposition towards flirtation, she succumbed to it. She had a choice, and she chose poorly (Gen 4:7).
