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Categories: MARRIAGE, RELATIONSHIPSIs a marriage performed by a woman (clergy, not a judge) valid in God's eyes?Sincerely,
A Don’t In The “Do”?
Dear A Don’t In The “Do”,
If a couple was married by a woman religious figure, it is probably safe to assume that they weren’t yet christians when they got married. 1 Cor 7:17 and 1 Cor 17:20 say that when someone becomes a christian, they should remain as they are called. This means that when you become a christian, your pre-christian marriage (along with other commitments) remain valid. So, if one were to be married by a false religious leader, the marriage would still be valid because the vows still count.
Which brings up a second point. Marriage is a vow between two people. Whether it is witnessed by a Justice of the Peace, a ship’s captain, or a minister – it is still a vow. Who performs the ceremony is a secondary issue from a Bible standpoint (Matt 5:37, Matt 23:16-23).