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The Minister Problem
Wednesday, January 04, 2017(This question is a follow up to “The Pastor Problem”)
We have other ministers (who are women), and his [the pastor] feelings about women seem to be not ones of love. Our church voted to ordain these women before he came, but he has blocked this.Sincerely,
Not Feeling The Love
Dear Not Feeling The Love,
Just one more nail in the coffin for this congregation. The role of women in the church is a very sensitive issue, which is why it is so important to carefully study the Scriptures on the topic. Our behavior should always be guided by what God says, not by our personal agendas or emotions. After clearly lambasting this “pastor” in the previous posts, we find ourselves in the odd position of agreeing with him. Women should not be ministers. 1 Tim 2:12 very clearly states that women should not be preachers or ministers. 1 Cor 14:34-35 further clarifies that public teaching in the church is not a role for women. Regardless of how politically incorrect that stance may be… that is what the Bible says. The congregation you are attending is sinning by having women ministers. It is time for you to find a faithful church because this church isn’t one. We would be happy to help you find a congregation in your area – simply e-mail us at askyourpreacher@mvchurchofchrist.org, and we will help track down a scripturally sound, Bible-following, God-fearing congregation near you.
The Point Of Blood
Tuesday, January 03, 2017Suffering of christians in other countries like Africa…I don't understand. If we consider what Jesus said in Lk 12:22-26, why do true christians starve to death everyday in other countries? I understand that sometimes bad things are allowed to happen to us for God's purpose, but when I am asked by my children this question, how do I answer?
Sincerely,
Hungering For Truth
Dear Hungering For Truth,
Lk 12:22-26 never says that christians won’t suffer or die; it just says that God provides for us the way He sees fit and that we shouldn’t be anxious. Even Christ once went forty days without food (Lk 4:2), but there was a purpose to that hunger. Job was a man whose life epitomized suffering… but once again, there was a purpose (Job 2:3-7). Many christians died for their faith in the first century (Rev 17:6). Some christians die because they refuse to steal food, some die because they refuse to lie or cheat, and still others are murdered for confessing Christ. It was that way then, and it is the same today in many parts of the world. Not all christians are called to suffer to the point of blood (Heb 12:4), but if living a christian life brings about your death – heaven is very far better (Php. 1:21-23). When we suffer as christians, we are blessed (1 Pet 3:13-14). Tell your children that this world is not our home… we are just passing through.
The Structure Of The Church
Monday, January 02, 2017Local churches must be incorporated to receive tax exempt status. They then must select officers to comply with the law. My question is: can a woman be selected as an officer, specifically the office of treasurer and then engage in doing all of the tasks required of a treasurer to conduct the church business? Some say it's fine – if she only fulfils the responsibilities delegated to her by the trustees, in this case all men. Others say no, it's a position of authority, and unscriptural, as men are to hold those offices. I'd like a Bible answer, book(s), chapter(s), and verse(s), as this question is effecting the work of a new congregation that I am a part of.Sincerely,
Officer Ignorant
Dear Officer Ignorant,
Everyone agrees that women can be servants in the church – the question isn’t whether women can serve; it is how they can serve. Phoebe was a servant of the church (Rom 16:1) and was praised for her service. Priscilla was also commended for her labor on behalf of the church (Rom 16:3). The Bible clearly shows women working in the church and in a very positive way.
To answer your question, we need to look at what positions women are forbidden from taking in the church and what the leadership structure of the church looks like. Let’s take a look at the leadership structure of a congregation first.
The early church was led by the apostles. In the very beginnings of the church, the apostles were in charge of all the teaching (Acts 2:42) and daily affairs of the church (Acts 4:34-37). Eventually, the work became so immense that the apostles began to delegate some of the responsibility to qualified men (Acts 6:1-4 shows the apostles appointing men to have authority over the daily distribution of bread to christian widows). The system of the apostles being in charge and delegating some of their authority to others would eventually no longer work because the apostles were only twelve men. How would the church function once they were gone?
The answer is ‘elders’. The apostles eventually began to appoint elders in every congregation and then commended those elderships to lead in a godly way (Acts 14:23). Not just anyone could become an elder – 1 Tim 3:1-7 and Tit 1:5-9 give the qualifications for elders. One of those qualifications is that an elder must be a man. Elders have ultimate oversight of a congregation. Elders are in charge of everything that occurs within a local church (Heb 13:17). However, just like the apostles before them, elders have a right to appoint deacons to help handle various tasks. The elders are ultimately in charge, but deacons are given a certain level of authority over others as the elders see fit (1 Tim 3:13). Deacons also are required to be men (1 Tim 3:12). Elders and deacons are always men and they are the only ones allowed to have authority over others within a local congregation.
As we mentioned before, women are seen serving in many capacities in the church, but they are never seen in positions of authority. Women are forbidden from having authority over men in the church… they are also forbidden from publicly teaching men (1 Tim 2:12). Women cannot be preachers or have positions within the church that allow them to have dominion (the word ‘dominion’ means ‘act on their own authority over’). Women are encouraged to teach other women (Tit 2:3-5) but to take a less authoritative role than men within the church and family.
This is a very long answer to your question, but your question needed a lengthy answer. If the role of treasurer is a position where this woman will be making decisions and governing men within the church, then she cannot be the treasurer. However, if the treasurer doesn’t make any decisions that are usurping the authority of the men of the congregation, she can serve. Once again, women can (and should) be servants in the church as long as:
- They aren’t publicly preaching and teaching to men.
- They aren’t in positions of dominion above men.
Paul explains the reason for this structure in 1 Tim 2:13. Adam was created first, and Eve was created as his helper. In both the family (Col 3:18-19) and the church (1 Cor 14:34), this principle is carried out. Eve was no less valuable than Adam, but she was designed for a different role.
The Pastor Problem
Friday, December 30, 2016(This question is a follow-up to “Ungifted”.)
It's me again. If you are not paying tithes, does the pastor have the right to stop you from serving on organizations? If a deacon disagrees with his program, should the deacon be put off the deacon board?Sincerely,
Under A Thumb
Dear Under A Thumb,
We’ll answer your question by asking a question: why is there only one pastor in this church? The Lord never designed the church to be led by one man. In every New Testament congregation, the church is led by a plurality of elders (also known as pastors). Pastors lead the church together. Paul wrote to the elders in Philippi (Php 1:1). He met with the elders in Ephesus (Acts 20:17). Every congregation had elders to lead them (Acts 14:23). There is no example of a single elder/pastor leading the church. Multiple pastors shepherding the church avoids all the power being placed in the hands of one man. One man with too much authority can be corrupted… as your church is seeing. This man is totally corrupted, power hungry, and greedy. As you have mentioned in your previous questions, he has an unhealthy addiction to money. This church has a problem with its leadership structure. If you would like to start attending a congregation that won’t bleed you for every dollar you have AND is Scripturally sound AND will help you get to heaven instead of spreading false teaching, we would be happy to help you locate one in your area. Our e-mail is askyourpreacher@mvchurchofchrist.org.