Based on 1 Cor 11:4-7, can a man pray while wearing a hat/cap?

Sincerely,
Covered or Uncovered?

Dear Covered or Uncovered,

1 Cor 11:1-15 is a discussion of men’s and women’s roles.  Part of that discussion involves the way that men and women look.  Women are supposed to be veiled (1 Cor 11:5), and God has given women a natural veil – their long hair (1 Cor 11:15).  Likewise men are supposed to have heads that are unveiled (1 Cor 11:4), i.e. short hair (1 Cor 11:14).  It is always wrong for a man to have long, feminine hair.  There is great debate over whether or not a man wearing a hat while praying is a sin.  One cannot be too dogmatic on this point.  The verses of first Corinthians eleven are primarily dealing with hair length, not with caps or hats.

Having said that, it is culturally appropriate in America for a man to take his hat off while praying – as a sign of respect.  Therefore, since we cannot all agree on whether leaving the hat on is a sin, but we can be sure that removing the hat is respectful… probably just best to take the hat off (Rom 14:13).

Is it wrong to bring a drink into church?  I know in 1 Corinthians it discusses this, and I think it's clear cut, but I've noticed members bringing in water bottles, then it became flavored/colored waters, and now I've seen coffee and whipped coffee drinks in the church building.  This bothers me, but maybe I should not be so worked up about this either...

Sincerely,
In A Froth

Dear In A Froth,

1 Cor. 11:22 addresses how the Corinthian church was treating the Lord’s Supper like a common meal.  It is always wrong for the church to become a social organization and add social functions to the work of the church or the worship services.  However, we would not go so far as to use that verse to bar all food or drink from the church building.  Bringing in a bottle of water or a baggie of Cheerios for your child is not the same as having a social meal.

Where the line is between a handful of raisins for a fussy child and a sinful situation that involves a feast replacing the Lord’s work… that is a matter of wisdom.  That is what you are asking about.  It takes wisdom and maturity to discern between good and evil (Heb 5:14).  If not careful, a congregation can easily drift into liberalism (Heb. 2:1).  A congregation’s leadership, which is hopefully an eldership, should be ever vigilant to protect against such drifting.

Why do we worship on Sunday (which is the first day of the week) instead of worshipping on the seventh day of the week (which is the Sabbath), a day that we must keep holy?

Sincerely,
Weekend Wonderer

Dear Weekend Wonderer,

The Sabbath was a holy day for the Jews, not for Christians.  The Old Testament has a myriad of laws that are no longer binding in the New Testament: animal sacrifice, clean and unclean foods, and various festivals… just to name a few.  2 Cor 3 is an entire chapter devoted to explaining how the Old Law has been surpassed by the New Law.  2 Cor 3:3 especially clarifies the issue when it states that our law is “not in tables of stone”, a direct reference to the Ten Commandments that were written on stone tablets.

Gal 3:24-25 makes it clear that the Old Law was a tutor to bring mankind to Christ, but now that Christ has come, we are no longer under that tutor.  The Sabbath is a part of that Old Law.  In the New Testament, christians meet on the first day of the week to worship and take the Lord’s Supper (Acts 20:7).  In short: different covenants, different days.

My question regards the practice of tithing.  When my husband and I both worked, we gladly tithed 10% and more.  Now that we are down to one income, tithing 10% is not possible.  I invite anyone to look at my budget -- you will not find a clothing allowance, an entertainment allowance (although I do get the kids a happy meal when I go grocery shopping, mostly so I can unload and put away groceries in peace!).  You will not find a growing savings account or contributions to an investment plan.   The fact is, we've sacrificed a lot, so that I could stay at home with the kids while they are preschoolers.  Once they're both in school, we'll go back to being a two-income family.

My question, which I'm sure you've heard a million times, is should I tithe only what we are able?  I believe that God wants me to pay my bills.  I also don't think my church is going to pay my bills when I fall behind on them because I am tithing instead.

I'm looking for someone to give me an honest answer.  For what it's worth, as a single parent (before marriage), I did tithe 10% instead of paying my bills.  I fell behind on my bills.  I married my current husband with a mountain of debt which we are slowly emerging from.

Sincerely,
Ten Is Too Many

Dear Ten Is Too Many,

Tithing is an Old Testament commandment (Num 18:24), not a New Testament one.  Jews tithe; christians “lay by in store as we have prospered” (1 Cor 16:1-3).  God doesn’t give a specific percentage that christians should give back.  He commands that we prepare beforehand what we give (that’s the “lay by in store” part – 1 Cor 16:2).  He also commands that we be “cheerful givers” and that we give as we have “purposed in our hearts” (2 Cor 9:7).  Though tithing, which means ‘one tenth’, is a good rule of thumb for giving… it isn’t a command.

Any church that tells you that you have to give 10% is warping the Scriptures to increase your contribution.  You and your husband need to prepare beforehand what it is that you can cheerfully give.  Giving should be a sacrifice – but a voluntary one based off of thoughtful contemplation.

Is there any particular order that church services are to occur in?  In some congregations I've been to, the Lord's Supper is at the end of the sermon, but most other congregations I have attended have it prior to the sermon.  Is there an example of how church services should be conducted down to this detail in the New Testament, or is this up to the leaders of the congregation?

Sincerely,
Out Of Order

Dear Out Of Order,

There is no particular order that services must occur in – only particular elements that need to be included.  The Bible gives us examples and commands for five different elements to the public worship.

1. Teaching/Preaching (1 Cor 4:17)
2. Singing (Eph 5:19)
3. Prayer (Acts 12:5)
4. Taking A Collection – Sunday only (1 Cor 16:1-2)
5. Lord’s Supper – Sunday only (Acts 20:7)

Of these five elements, two of them are specifically allowed only on Sundays.  The others can be done any time the brethren get together.  God is specific that these are the things He wants us to do, however, He never stipulates what order He wants them done in.  Every Bible command has specific elements and general elements to them.  For example, Noah was told to build the ark out of a specific type of wood – gopher wood (Gen 6:14) – but he was free to use whatever tools or procedures he liked to collect that wood because God wasn’t specific about that detail.  In the case of worship, God is specific on what elements He wants, but He leaves what time of day to meet, arrangement of pews, order of services, which songs to lead, and other details up to us.